~ rewang @ wedding ~

i know bln Syawal dh lps dh lma dh. tp this is late entry about a wedding that i attended with my cousins masa still dlm bln Syawal aritu. kn dh ckp, every weekend di bln Syawal aritu dipenuhi dgn aktiviti2 melibatkn kaum keluarga semata2.

 

the wedding that we attended was held at our kampung. disebabkn dh lma xbalik kmpg, my cousins wt aktiviti rnda kwsn dulu b4 berjln ke rumah pengantin.

~ ronda kwsn main kabait... hmmm, kwsn stil elok lg ~

 

kt kmpg i knsp rewang beramai2 mmg diamalkn bila de mjls2, termasuk la mjls kawen. (emmm... famili kitrg adalah famili melayu di tengah2 kelompok msyrkt jawa). sape yg xtau rewang tu amenda, it's basically amalan gotong royong preparing the food & masak beramai2 sesama msyrkt setempat. so, perkataan catering mmg alien kot di sini, hahaha.

 

~ ini diaaa tmpt masak!!! catering? amenda tu? kek ke? ~

 

sebagai wrga2 muda belia semuanye, my cousins dgn i sibuk dgn aktiviti merapu kami, while parents semua bersalam2an & bertanya khabar kt tuan rumah & penduduk kmpg. org2 tua berborak, kita x elok masuk cmpr, kn? so, let's bergmbr, muahahaha...

 

 

penduduk kmpg ni kalo bkk syrkt catering beramai2 pn boleh cz food mmg sedap2 semuanye. plg menjadi pujaan hati & rebutan kitrg, kerepek rengginang. sila google image utk sape2 yg xtau. kerepek tu bknnye leh jmp kt kmpg ni je, kt pasar kt umah i pn ada. tp bila mkn kt kmpg ni gk br rs sedap. hahaha, sggh mengada =)

 

~ kegembiraan dpt food sedap ~

  

~ kegembiraan dpt door gift ~

 

before blk, semua pn bersalam2 tahniah & slmt hari raya dgn tuan rumah, pakcik2 & makcik2 yg terlibat dgn rewang kt wedding ni. memandangkn para ibu bapa & nenda dh lma tak bersua muka dgn pnduduk kmpg ni, nk ucap bye2 tu cm ala2 berat di hati mereka (sob...sob...). kami yg muda belia ni xnak la spoil mood syahdu masing2, so kami buat hal kami sendiri, yakni act craaazzzzyyyyy....

 

 

kereta2 kitrg sume park kt kwsn umah nenda. kwsn umah nenek sndiri ada, xyah la nk blocking jln org/park kt kwsn umah org lk. before went back to KL, nenda naik umah dia cz nk tengok apa2 yg ptt. smntra tgg nenda tgk brg2 dlm umah, kami2 yg muda belia ni wt hal sndiri dpn umah. of course, act craaaaazzzzyyy lagiiii, hahahaha...

~ 1 of us 4 girls fly faaaarrrr awaaaaayyy ~

 

lps dh sedap2 mkn & minum kt umah makcik td, sibuk la masing2 nk g toilet. termasuk la i. baik kita g toilet kt umah nenek sndiri kn, drpd tetiba nnt dh tengah jln br sibuk nk cari toilet. smntra i tgg turn nk masuk toilet, 1 soalan paling xleh blah from cousin - "btul ke kt belakang toilet tu de hantu?". hisssshhh....sungguh nk kna cabai mulut tu ;)

 

~ wahai sang peminat cotton ~

skrg ni kn dh jd trend org wt business online. yg nk menjual lbh senang wt business, dpt target market yg lbh besar & insyaallah rezeki pn bertambah. yg nk membeli lbh senang buat pilihan tnpa perlu rebut2 dgn org, takyah nk drive g kedai (worst case scenario, takde parking kt kwsn mall/kedai yg dituju. more horrifying scenario, ko xreti nk cari kwsn mall/kedai yg dituju walaupun dgn bntuan GPS) & insyaallah barang selamat smpi dpn pintu dlm masa 3 hari (or less, or more... depends pd thp kecekapan urusan penghntrn).

 

de kwn pesan kt i:-

"ko jgn start terjebak tgk org jual brg online ni. once ko dh start beli,

nnt ko jd addicted".

ok, wt msa ni i lom smpi thp nk terjebak beli lg la, hehehe. i just browse through some sites yg agak2 interesting, lpstu "uuuuhhhh---aaaaahhhh----wowwwww" sensorg, that's it... blom lg smpi thp proceed kpd klik utk beli. 

 

now i nk bg korg2 yg suka terjebak wt shopping online ni (or yg just suka browse je, mcm i ni) utk belek2 kain2 cotton from this facebook page - "Cforcotton". utk si peminat kain cotton, sila la LIKE the page. leh beli utk mak, kakak, adik, makcik, mak mertua, adik ipar, kakak ipar, kenkwn, etc2. sempat lg ni if nk tempah utk Raya Haji, hehehe. sila la sila ye... LIKE the page.

~ waaaahhhhh, annoying nyeeee!!! ~

different people react differently towards certain situation. some people just don't understand knp kdg2 i cpt sgt nk kuar statement "eeeeiiii, menjengkelkan!!!". yes, read previous posts and u'll know how certain things make me feel annoyed, sedangkn d same thing x bg impact apa pn kt org len, hahaha.

 

i'm listing below 3 scenarios yg leh wt some people get annoyed. awal2 i nk btau ni, this is not just d list of things yg buat I rs menjengkelkan. d list also adalah cnth of d scenarios that make kwn2 i rs annoyed towards certain things/people/situation and errrrrrr...look =)

 

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1) bila org xpaham bahasa & sj nk test your level of kesabaran

ada org xleh tahan dgr bunyi sudu & garpu berlaga, ngilu katanye. it's a well known fact among kwn2 dia yg dia ni mmg xleh dgr bunyi sudu garpu berlaga. so, kenkwn sejati dia, cz dh tau dia rs annoyed bila sudu garpu berlaga, mmg akn sgt berhati2 bila mkn pki sudu garpu dpn dia ni. tp adalah pulak a fren of dia ni py fren yg sj nk tnjk friendly bila 1st time (or 2nd time, or 3rd time & so forth) jmp. dh sekali org pesan toksah laga2 sudu garpu, dia ni degil & sj2 gk wt mnda yg kwn ni mmg xleh dgr. mmg dasar xphm bahasa kot, selayaknye kna penumbuk,muahahaha. annoying giller eh??? org dh ckp jgn laga2kn sudu garpu, ko buat gk. mmg ko sj cari psl. ko mmg menjengkelkan!!!

 

2) bila org suka2 hati buang/alihkn your stuffs

ada org yg wpun meja dia serabut/bersepah, dia tau dia ltk brg/kertas/document ktne. walaupun meja/bilik dia npk cm kapal karam, tp dia tau nk cari a particular document (cnthnye) kt atas meja ke, tepi kabinet ke, bawah meja ke, dpn tingkap ke, etc2... (menda berlonggok2 tu kita andaikan la mcm mini gunung berapi yg nk meletus ye, hahaha). tetiba la pulak de org dtg nk bersihkn bilik dia, org tu g lap2 meja dia & alihkan kertas fr belah kanan meja to sebelah kiri. lap2 meja lg & alihkn pulak susunan buku kt timbunan atas meja dia (buku kt timbunan belah bwh g letak belah atas, yg atas g letak belah bwh). plg kronik, if org tu igt kertas berconteng2 ats meja tu is sampah, sedangkn ada important facts yg dia tulis dlm kertas tu (obviously itu bkn sampah kalo still kt atas meja). so, ini menimbulkan amarah!!! ini sgt annoying sekali!!! menjengkelkan!!!

 

FINALLY,

3) bila org dress up tidak sprti yg kita suka tgk

ada org yg xsuka tgk laki pki tshirt/kemeja utk g kerja kaler pink (contohnye). or xsuka tgk pompn pki gelang smpi ke siku (contoh lg). & de org xsuka tgk any baju/seluar/tudung/kain yg corak kotak2 (xtau la cmne dia tgk kain pelikat being worn by bapak & adik beradik dia). and ada lg yg xsuka tgk any baju/seluar/tudung/kain yg corak jalur2 (xtau la cmne dia tgk Jalur Gemilang, hehehe). kita amik la contoh org yg xsuka tgk seluar kotak2 (with the k-pop fashion yg makin jd kegilaan wrga Malaysia, senang nk beli seluar kotak2 skrg ni). so bila dia terjmpa laki pki suar kotak2, trus dia pangkah. pd dia, gaya pki seluar kotak2 tu mmg xleh diterima akal. menjengkelkan!!!

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fr these 3 contoh, d final example i xleh tahan. got d whatsapp message recently:-

fren: i rs i dh tau apa yg iritates i psl XYZ tu.

me: apa dia? what makes u rs dia tu mnjengkelkan u?

fren: haha. u mesti gelak. tak logik. tp mmg menjengkelkan ku. seluar kotak2 dia. hahaha.

 

well, can't blame d person's choice of wardrobe, hahahaha... 

~ presumption ~

"an example of a presumption is someone assuming their opinion is the right one"

(quoted from YourDictionary)

 

i've had two cases whereby i made a presumption about something (or rather, someone). at the end, whatever presumption that i had in my mind turned out to be wrong.

 

case #1

i deal with the vendors most of the times (vendors for books, library hardware/equipments, library system, online resources, etc2). once, we were trying to get quotation for something that we need for the library. all communications during that time were done via e-mail or through phone. and all those times when i was communicating on the phone with the representative from this particular company, i created my own mental image - "this lady must be about 40yrs old (or more)". however, the 1st time i met her, there she was... a beautiful and sweet lady (it was later that i found out her age, just slightly older than me). hah, malu di situ, hehehehe... 

 

case #2

this just happened recently (obviously i didn't learn my lesson, hahaha). i was also in communication via e-mails and phone call with another vendor for another item that we need. i only had 1 chance to talk to him on the phone and he set an appointment to meet me for further discussion. (take note: once. 1 chance). that 1st phone call and i already created my own mental image (again???) - "this guy must be an indian uncle who speaks fluent B. Malaysia" (his name sounds like an Indian name). he came for the discussion and there he was, a young Chindian (presumption based on his  skin tone) guy. again, malu!!! (ahahahaha...sila gelak kuat2).

 

my point is that we tend to create our own presumption most of the times. we make our own conclusion based on what we see/hear. school girls who like to hang out with their female peers can't be categorized to belong into a certain group. my own personal experience - primary and secondary school dgn bdk2 pompn je. and i hang out dgn my female friends utk g mkn, tgk wayang, beli tudung, cari baju, beli beg, bukak posa, etc2 cz they are more sincere in giving their opinions (br tersedar, dh lma giller x hang out dgn jejaka2 kt opis... tgg aktiviti 6 Oct nt, yeahhh!!!). & i stay at their house (rumah sewa my female friends ni) for a night or two, just to catch up, bergossip & merapu. (read my post here if you want to understand more about us girls). oh ye, tp i bkn bdk skolah lg, hehehe (presumption yg i'm younger than my age, or that i still bersekolah, adalah among my favourites, muahahahahahaha).

 

** i'm just giving my personal opinion here, utk issue about female schoolgirls, based on the issue yg dibangkitkan recently.

 

.peace.

~ 6-days challenge ~

i've already told u about my 6-days challenge here, kn? why is it a 6-days challenge? bcz dlm 1 box Brand's InnerShine Pati Beri tu ada 6 bottles, 1 bottle to drink each day. so, minum 6 days, dh abis 1 kotak.

 

perubahan yg i rs after drinking the 6 bottles of InnerShine Pati Beri? hmmm... yg plg ketara i rs is mata i xde la sll gatal cm dulu. eh, DULU tu cm lma sgt lk bunyinye, hehehe. ok la, b4 minum InnerShine Pati Beri ni, selaaaaaluuuuu sgt i akn genyeh/gosok mata lps smyg. xtau la ni habit ke apa. tp asal lps abis smyg, lps doa, sure tgn genyeh mata kuat2. kdg2 xsempat doa lg, tgn dh naik menggenyeh mata. mslhnye, i lk genyeh/gosok mata kekadang tu smpi nk tercabut bijik mata pn ada gk. ganas, kn? sbb tu la pyh bebenor i nk substitute my spectacles to contact lenses. & pyh gk utk i pki eyeliner/eyeshadow cz tgn i cpt sgt nk menggenyeh mata.

 

so far, tu jelah kot perubahan plg ketara i rs. now dh kurg la i genyeh mata kuat2. kekerapan mata rs gatal2 pn dh kurg gk. tp mungkinkah aku ni terpsiko by InnerShine Pati Beri ni? kalo nk cnfirm whether i yg terpsiko or the product is actually good&berkesan, cuba la korg beli sekotak yg de 6 botol tu & try sndiri. minum 6-days straight. lpstu korg perasankan la whether there are any perubahn yg korg rs. kalo de perubahan (i mean, good effect), mknanye i tak terpsiko la, kn? hehehe... ok, click here to know more about Brand's InnerShine Pati Beri, and also other products by Brand's.

 

ok now, back to cabaran puasa hari ke-6 dlm Syawal. esok (jumaat) dh leh raya 2nd time =) 

 

.bye.

 

~ 5 a.k.a five a.k.a lima ~

we are coming towards the final part of Hari Raya. i think this year's raya adalah raya yg plg busy seumur idup i. ok tipu, exaggerate lbh di situ =)

 

tp this year's raya adalah raya yg plg byk aktiviti bersama famili members during weekends (*sbb tu la bj raya i thn ni de 5 pasang, ahakkkkssss*). aktiviti g beraya tu biasa la...mna de msa len lg nk g beraya umh sedara mara selain msa wiken, kn? apart from that, byk aktiviti kenduri kendara/jamuan/mjls among family members. dan i br terperasan mlm td, since dr 1st day raya smpi la ke harini leh dikatakan evryday i pki bj kurung including on weekends (exceptional bila i pki shirt&pants to office) (*sbb tu la bj raya i thn ni de 5 pasang, ahakkkkkssss. hahaha, gilo!!!*). nextwiken final week raya & de final kenduri kt kmpg halaman. i menempel diri nk folo my cousins. haiiihh, perangai menempel mcm parasit btul ;p

 

this year's raya jugak adalah raya yg plg kaya dgn aktiviti mkn2 kt ofis. disbbkn ofis skrg lbh bsr compared to our office at Jln Raja Laut, departments merata2 kt different buildings, so byk le jamuan raya peringkat department. tu x termasuk jamuan raya plg besar peringkat ofis (dh lps dh, last week). this week final week raya & de final jamuan raya peringkat department(organized by Finance department) this coming friday. sbb tu la bj raya i thn ni de 5 pasang, ahakkkkkssss... (*mmg psiko dh i, muahahaha*).

~ hari ini dalam sejarah ~

bknnye sejarah utk harini. it's sejarah utk 7 September 2012:-

~ 1st time beli Tutti Frutti... read B-E-L-I ~

 

yg M-A-K-A-N adalah org len.

~ knp la sggh mencabar ~

journey nk blk umh from ofis semlm adalah agk sgt mencabar. kalo kira la tempoh perjlnan from d time i kuar ofis smpi la i reached home, dh lebih kurg serupa cm journey from Bangi to Johor kot.

 

semlm hujan lbt... merata2 la hujan lbt. standard biasa la kalo ujan lbt sket je sure jd flashflood. hasilnye, i kuar ofis kul 5.35p.m., i reached home 9.40 p.m.... seeeeee???? lbh kurg cm nk g johor/penang je, kn?

 

~ dpn tu tol Sg. Besi. i menatap tol Sg. Besi je dkt 1jam ok ~

 

dh le sejuk cz ujan lbt. kalo bkk tgkp keta & switched off aircond keta pn sejuk, kalo switched on aircond apatah lg. & saya bila dh kul9 cmtu x mkn2 lg, perut dh jd kronik tahu. tambah lk sejuk. cm nk nanges cz kelaparan dlm keta =( smpi je rumah, kebuloq... trus cari choc cake yg dpt ms kenduri. abis half choc cake, amik lk nasik. aaaahhhh....nikmaaaatttt =) igt, itu dh semestinye la menghampiri kul10mlm & i mkn kepelbagaian food yg menyumbang ke arah, emmm...x pyh ckp la. kesimpulannye, jgn diamalkn sll2 sgt mkn aftr kul8.

 

harini g kerja & lalu kt d same highway yg i stucked dlm jammed less than 12-hour yg lps. haisssshhhh.... nk muntah!!!

~ MATA hati ~

i started wearing spectacles since i was in standard 6. msa tu power x la byk mna. tp i can't see clearly from certain distance. my father bw i g kedai spectacles & uncle cina tu kata dh kna start pki spectacles utk cntrl supaya power xmakin naik mendadak.

 

msa awal2 pki spectacles rs la cm bdk pndai... ye la, bdk pndai yg rajin membaca yg akhirnye contribute towards jd rabun, hewhewhew. pdhal xsedar, bdk rajin main game kt komputer pn leh cntribute kpd mata rabun (i started main game kt kmputer since i was 6yrs old kot, msa tu game Digger yg famous. no wonder smpi la ni rajin main game lg).... begitu jugak bdk rajin tgk tv dr jarak dkt pn lh jd cpt rabun. kesimpulannye, jgn nk prasan yg diri adalah rajin membaca maka contribute kpd menjadi rabun, totally contradicting.

 

sepjg2 pki spectacles ni ada 1X je keajaiban berlaku. ada sekali tu i rs cm kpale i pening2, bila ngadap cmputer je i kna set kpale i to specific angle br i xpening. i pkir abisla ni, kalo g optometris sure naik power spectacles ni. rupenya bila check kt optometris, dia ckp power spectacles i dh menurun =) waaaaahhhh, amazing!!! tetiba jd riak - "see??? wpun bc buku citer smbl baring & bc buku citer dlm not so good lighting, power spectacles ku masih leh turun, muahahaha" (smbl gelak riak).

 

i de angan2 nk pki contact lense. mslhnye penakut, huhuhu... penakut nk ltk menda dlm mata. d biggest challenge adalah i ni suka sgt menggenyeh/menggosok mata dgn ganas. sbb i ganas bila tiba bab menggenyeh mata ni la i xberani gk nk pki eyeliner/eyeshadow. krg wt penat je pki eyeliner/eyeshadow konon2 nk rs cantik, tetiba bila mata gatal mula menggosok mata dgn ganas, dh comot eyeliner/eyeshadow aku. IF i pki lense & tetiba i terganas menggosok mata, lg parah kot. so, padam jelah angan2 nk pki contact lense.

 

tp now dh de org tegur ckp mata i npk cm penat (mmg le aku pnt pn) & de dark circles kt mata. aritu g Guardian pharmacy, aunty yg jg section jual2 ubat tu pn ckp d same thing. memikirkan dh a few times kna tgr dgn org psl mata ni, now i dh start cari solution kpd problem mata ni. semlm went to Watsons & bought Brand's Innershine Pati Beri.

 

image from www.brandsworld.com.my
 

i bought d small box with 6 bottles inside. nk try for 6days la konon2nye & hrp2nye de improvement. kalo bernasib baik, mbe de improvement with this 1st box. if x pn, kna try lg anthr box & hrp2nye de perkembangan positive.

 

org ckp "dari mata turun ke hati" (*wink wink *). moga2 mata lbh cerah-bersinar-cntk lpsni, hehehe...

 

~ dia sudah MERDEKA, not? ~

lps dh 2hari celebrate cousin's wedding kt umh d bride, now it's our turn as family pengantin lelaki 2b d host. it was a simple wedding reception. alhamdulillah, all went well. now cousin & his bride leh tarik nafas senang hati cz d big ceremony dh settle. lega. 

actually not all 13 of us cousins were there yesterday. yg kna blk on duty kt spital dh blk melaka, yg kna amik exam msa abang dia kawen dh blk uni (x bes nye exam time abang kawen kn, huhuhu), yg br nk start orientation pg2 lg parents dh g hntr g orientation... agk xbes cz x semua yg ada :( tp wpun x cukup quorum, we still had great time when it comes to taking photos. tu kn acara wajib,muahahaha.
 

~ nurse nk tlg doktor scrub tgn b4 wt operation ~

 

~ i'm wearing my heels, tp masih xcukup ketinggian ~

 

 ~ sape2 yg kna jwb exam/g orientation/on duty, jgn jealous ~

 

~ all loqlaq cousins (d bride blom bljr from us) ~ 

 

 ~ emmmm... sedapnyeeeeeeeeee ~

 

 ~ aigo, baby pn excited kt dlm perut la ~

 

~ adik2 soleh&solehah jd pengapit utk wedding abang ~

 

semua pn dh settle, rsnye dh xde wedding lg among us dlm wktu trdkt smpi end of d year kot. tp kalo ada pn wedding lg ujung thn ni, apa salahnye, alhamdulillah =) emmm... hopefully xde yg terkecik ati/meluat/menyampah/jealous bila tgk or bc this entry. khasnye utk cousins yg xdpt berada di tmpt kejadian, hehehehe. xpe, kita tgg next wedding lk. oh ye, we r still dlm bln berhari raya. so, kalo de yg terkecik ati, hrp diampunkn.

 

 ~ bermaaf-maafan la sesama kita, hehehe ~

~ sedikit kelainan Merdeka celebration ~

this year i celebrated Merdeka day dgn sedikit kelainan...

 

 

eh...jgn silap, it's not my wedding (yet) =) my cousin got married on Merdeka day. we r happy for him, wpn byk aksi tersyahdu after d akad nikah. utk yg dh tiada, definitely dirindui, huhuhu.

 

 

our family takdelah besar mana pn. cucu2 my grandmother (my cousins) total up to 13org je... kalo buat 1 team bola, cukup2 ahli je + 2 org pemain simpanan. begitulah sikitnye. tp alhamdulillah, semua 13org (including me) dpt attend this wedding masa hari nikah & bersanding kt rumah pengantin perempuan.

 

 

to abang (a.k.a zaini/amir/jai), congratulations on your wedding. tggjwb dh berganda npknye. to emma, welcome to d family =)



crazy cousins welcoming emma to d family, hahahaha...