when you listen to ...

• i LISTENED when my cousin merungut bahawasanye at the moment houseman di Ortopedik adalah sgt relax... sgt relax smpi agak sangap dh xtau nk buat apa. b4 ni kt O&G len, nk beranak xlh nk tunggu2. now kt Ortopedik, lh bersantai2 cz bkn all d time ada aktiviti yg x menyempat nk tunggu len kali. nasihat i? sila beramah tamah dgn patients (& famili members mereka), tp cdgn i ditolak.
• i LISTENED bila sorg budk kecik ckp kt i that she's gonna stay at rumah "NENEK MERTUA". i don't even know where in the world did she pick up that word. NENEK MERTUA, okeh?!!! xleh tahan!!!
• i LISTENED when my friend(s) told me that they are going to Korea for holidays. auoooccchhhh!!! mahu ikut!!! pergi dgn muslim package adalah menarik & i would love to go too. tp, kita tunggu ye... tunggu ada rezeki lbh sket utk g sana 1 hari nnt. insyaallah.
• i LISTENED when ayahnde instructed me to settle hutang PTPTN i secepat mungkin. iye... iye... i tgh gigih la ni.

in English je we have LISTENING and HEARING, 2 maksud berbeza wpun guna deria yg sama. tp dlm bahasa malaysia, MENDENGAR is mendengar... mbe utk lbh precise leh ckp MENDENGAR DGN TELITI. dan nenek i yg awesome pnah bg nasihat:-

"jgn ukur dgn telinga. ukur dgn mata"

sgt dalam mksd tu, hahahaha. bila kita DGR pe org lain citer about someone, kita tend to make a judgment automatically, whether it's good or bad judgment. kalo si tukang pencerita pandai, maka sedap la dibubuh garam, gula, penyedap rasa segala supaya citer dia sedap. so, kita yg dgr ni pn cm senaaaaang sgt being influenced. if yg diDGR tu citer elok, xpe gk. if x, hmmm... takut jd fitnah. pnah dgr kn FITNAH tu amenda? hahaha...

TP, if kita TGK someone & we make our own judgment, itu adalah penilaian yg lbh tepat kot. mslhnye, bila kita TGK someone py muka cm agk garang/bengis/kurg manis, kita ckp org tu garang la, tak reti nk ramah tamah la, suka marah budak2 la, etc2... lerrr... pdhalnye org tu mbe adalah sgt sweet-berhati mulia-peramah-pndi berkawan-etc2. jgn lupa, de gk org cm agak happy go lucky, muka manis, peramah, etc2... pendek kata, mmg pandai la mingle around dgn org. tp tgk2, backstabber. %*#@!!!

it all comes down to ATTITUDE la, rasanye...

back to LISTENING and HEARING... i rs, no matter how good you are at LISTENING to what others told you, the most important thing is to know when to LISTEN TO YOURSELF. that's called LISTEN to your INSTINCT... krn instinct itu adalah sprti gk petunjuk dr Allah yg kita tak sedar. LISTEN to your INSTINCT cz it might show you something.